Amira Pocher - She suffers from her children's "daddy time"
Amira Pocher (31) recently revealed in the previous episode of her podcast "Liebes Leben"(exclusively on Podimo) that the public fuss surrounding her separation from Oliver Pocher (45) was not good for her health and that she had withdrawn socially. In the new episode, she talks to her brother Hima about another major challenge she is currently facing: The fact that she can no longer see her two children every day is like "shock therapy".
After Hima and Amira talk about movie recommendations and tips for successful game nights at the beginning of the new episode, the conversation shifts thematically to their grandparents. "It's Christmas time and it would be appropriate to go to the grandparents again," says Hima. They both remember how they used to spend every summer with grandma and grandpa in Carinthia when they were children.
During the conversation, Hima suggests that Amira should also send her two sons to their grandparents for two weeks in the summer. A suggestion that meets with little approval from Amira: "Am I crazy? Two weeks without me?" To which Hima objects: "But we did that too. It's nice for them when they look back on it later."
"Daddy time" is "a real challenge" for Amira
For Amira, sending her children to their grandparents alone is out of the question: "I would do it. But I'm sticking to it." She already has to give up her children because of the separation from Pocher. "It's tough for me when I've had the children here with me for a week or ten days and then it's daddy time. It's a real challenge for me," she tells her brother.
When she walks past the children's room during this time and no one is there, tears sometimes flow. "Or when I lie down in my bed in the evening and there's my little one's cuddle cloth or a toy car because we were still cuddling together in the morning. Then I stand there and think to myself: What's going on here? Where are you? That's really hard for me." Until the separation, she had only been away from them for a maximum of two days. "At most. And then you were always looking at your cell phone and always calling and asking," says Hima, assessing the situation. "But I miss them and I don't want them to miss me," Amira replies.
Hima's argument that mothers and fathers also need a few days of "me-time" from time to time is not entirely conclusive for Amira as a mother: "I need it too. When I take them to kindergarten in the morning, I also think to myself: Bye. But they could come back after an hour at the latest. I've already managed that now, for a few days. They've also been with daddy for a week and I still have to see them during that time. At least 20 minutes and give them a kiss."
Read also:
- Amira Pocher mentioned in her podcast "Liebes Leben" on Podimo that the public attention towards her separation from brother Oliver Pocher was affecting her emotional world negatively.
- During the podcast episode, Hima suggested that Amira should let their grandparents take care of the children for two weeks in the summer, but Amira was hesitant due to missing her children during their absence.
- Amira noted that spending time away from her children for longer periods of time was challenging, especially after the separation, and she often felt emotional when passing by their room or finding their belongings.
- Hima agreed that mothers and fathers need some time off as well, but Amira's emotional attachment to her children as a mother made it difficult for her to accept.
- Amira mentioned that even if she was away from her children for a few days, she would still miss them greatly and would always make an effort to see them during that time.
Source: www.stern.de
