- Four Signs That You Are Forever Single
"For every pot, there's a lid" – not quite, as researchers have found that people with certain traits tend to remain single long-term.
Those who wish to find a partner while single and go on date after date, but struggle to form a lasting relationship, might find the issue lies in their own personality. Psychologist Mark Travers, writing for "Psychology Today", reveals the traits that can make someone a long-term single without them even realizing it.
Four traits that make you more likely to stay single
Starting a family is not a priority Most people want to start a family at some point in their lives. If you don't have this desire, finding a suitable partner becomes more challenging. However, some couples choose to remain childless. Studies show that people without children experience higher levels of immediate happiness, while parents find more reflective happiness or a greater sense of life fulfillment. Research also indicates that job satisfaction is more important for life satisfaction than being in a relationship or married.
Career-driven If you're highly focused on your career and your job comes first, it's a clear sign that you're more likely to be single. Relationships require time, money, and sometimes patience, which many career-oriented people aren't willing to give. Potential partners may also not want to be put second.
The rebels If you dislike societal norms and values like family formation, monogamy, and marriage, and you generally dislike being put into boxes, it might indicate that you're happier being single.
The commitment-phobes If you notice that you have trouble with committed relationships, carry childhood traumas, or have other issues that surface as relationships get more serious, it's a good idea to seek help. This pattern of avoiding commitment won't disappear overnight and may cause you to remain single, consciously or unconsciously.
It's essential to understand your own type when making important life decisions, like starting a family. However, psychologist Mark Travers suggests that about half of today's adults also struggle with committing to long-term relationships and prefer to remain single.
Source: Psychology Today
Individuals who prioritize their careers over relationships, often finding satisfaction in their jobs instead of a significant other, might fall into the category of being career-driven and more likely to stay single. Additionally, some people may find solace in their independence due to a preference for challenging societal norms and values, potentially making them single rebels.
