Amira Pocher is "ready for love"
The first episode of Amira Pocher's new podcast has just been released. In a conversation with her younger brother, the 31-year-old talks about her failed marriage to comedian Oliver Pocher. She clarifies things that she believes have been misrepresented.
"I'm looking forward to the new man in my podcast life." With these words, Amira Pocher welcomes not only her brother Hima Aly, but also the listeners to her new podcast "Liebes Leben - mit Amira & Hima". And she directly hints that the first episode will focus on her and Oliver Pocher's separation.
She never thought that she and her brother would one day have a podcast, explains the 31-year-old. "Yes, only because yours is over now," she replies. After the official separation in the summer, the couple later said goodbye to their joint podcast "Die Pochers!".
It was a "great time" back then, for which she is also grateful, but she doesn't find the end of the podcast "too bad now, because it hasn't been easy for me in the last few months in particular to sit down with a lot of private topics and talk about everything normally and happily," she explains.
Listeners have "misinterpreted" things
"Hey, Amira is always so dismissive", many people would have heard - and then classified that as arrogant. "People can't understand that either, for example, when you're having a complete row and then say: 'Yes, okay, but we have to deliver the podcast in an hour. (...) That's very, very difficult and people have misinterpreted that too." She wasn't always able to hide it completely. And she didn't feel like the weekly headlines either.
Hima says that he is often asked about his sister's separation. "You're separated now," he begins, and Amira interjects with "I've been separated for a long time. Surprise!" interjects. "Officially, I don't know, for two or three months. And unofficially, you can imagine that you don't break up overnight - and then call the 'Bild' newspaper straight away. (...) It's a long process, and of course the public doesn't know that."
The past two weeks may not have been "the most difficult of my life", but they are already in the top three. Amira Pocher had "physically and mentally reached my limits. It wasn't nice." One side was the media, but the other was "the interpersonal aspect", which was "in a completely different league". "For me, it's about the people around me. I'm concerned about the man with whom I brought two children into the world. I'm concerned about other parties who are simply sitting in my chair right now without even having spoken to me - or asked me how I'm doing." Or it's also about others who simply didn't get in touch. "That's what has hurt me the most over the last few weeks - not the headlines."
Olli didn't "fight as hard for the marriage as he does now"
Although Oliver Pocher has shown himself to be partially conciliatory on social media, "just because a man posts twice and writes a few lines about it" doesn't make it any better. "They would have touched me even more if they had come in person. Maybe on the same day. But nothing ever came in person. And I think to myself all the time: if Olli had invested as much strength and power and fought as hard for our marriage as he does now for his own gain and to make me look completely stupid, we would still be together now."
After her 30th birthday, there was the first "small turning point" last year. Her mother came to Amira in Crete and told her: "Amira, you've changed so much. You're so negative. (...) I don't know you like this. That's not you." At the time, she threw around swear words. What her mother had said to the presenter had bothered her for weeks. At some point, she thought to herself: "Mom's just right. That's not me."
"Of course I loved him"
Amira Pocher's brother saw a "fire" in the couple at the beginning of their relationship. "Of course I loved him," she confirms. It also hurts her when people doubt that. After all, she married the comedian and had two children with him.
And it was also him who "more or less dragged her into the public eye". "If you read our marriage contract, you would know exactly what I was after: love. I didn't want any money, no community of accrued gains, I didn't want any property from him. I didn't want anything. I just wanted this marriage and to live happily ever after."
In recent months, Amira has spent a lot of time thinking about herself, love and everyday life as a family. She now seems to be open to a new relationship. "On the subject of love, I can say that I'm really looking forward to love now," she explains. "I'm so ready for love and I'm looking forward to love. I'm looking forward to butterflies in my stomach."
The new episodes of the "Liebes Leben - mit Amira & Hima" podcast are published exclusively on Podimo every Tuesday. Meanwhile, Oliver Pocher is continuing the old couples podcast "Die Pochers!" on the platform in a new format. Under the title "Die Pochers! Frisch recycelt", he can be heard alongside his ex-wife Alessandra Meyer-Wölden, to whom he was married from 2010 to 2014.
"Amira Pocher's podcast discussions often delve into celebrity couples and their experiences, making her perspective on Celebrity couples like her own with Oliver Pocher particularly insightful."
"Despite their high-profile separation, there have been rumors about a possible reconciliation between Amira and Oliver Pocher in the entertainment world, adding another layer to their already fascinating story."
Source: www.ntv.de
